“My guru gave me total freedom; how can I do any different?” Guruji
would say. “Use the mantras and rituals I teach you whenever and
however you want. There is no requirement forcing you to somehow lead
your life differently.”
Indeed, he extended this
laissez-faire approach far beyond his guru’s original concept, applying it to a broad spectrum of spiritually related behaviors.
Even vegetarianism, a virtually universal practice among traditional
south Indian Brahmins, is not a prerequisite for Sri Vidya initiation
according to Guruji. Though personally a lifelong vegetarian, he
shrugged it off as a “cultural habit” of his family, caste and
region—not a spiritual one.
“Non-vegetarians are eligible devotees, too,” he said. “I used to
argue that, out of the 10 avatars of Vishnu, only Vamana the Dwarf is a
vegetarian Brahmin; all the others are non-vegetarians. So it is a case
of vegetarian devotees worshiping a non-vegetarian god!” He laughed.
“Why is this? Why can’t a non-vegetarian devotee worship a
non-vegetarian god or goddess?
Ahimsa, is it? Non-violence? Vegetables like the
kushmanda (a
red pumpkin common in south India) can live for a full year after being
separated from the plant. They experience pain and pleasure too, even
if they can’t express it in terms we understand.
Himsa [injury, harm] cannot be avoided. It is part of life. Life consumes life; that is the rule. We can’t eat inorganics and live.”
It was a viewpoint fully consistent with Guruji’s general disinterest
in the mundane social markers of one’s spiritual path—whether they
concerned dress, diet or anything else.
While he never rejected such practices outright, he did advise
caution about attitudes and practices that emphasize divisions between
people, or that act as “first you must do this” obstacles to the free
exploration of one’s spirituality. This philosophy even goes a long way
toward explaining his own simple form of dress.
“To put on
distinctive religious garb and set oneself apart from the rest of
mankind certainly flatters the vanity of one’s tribe,” he noted. “But is it spirituality?”
Physical austerity as a pathway to God drew a similar note of
caution. “Asceticism is not a requirement for spiritual development,” he
said. “Austerities are as much of a waste of time as an overfull
belly.”
When a sleekly muscled young male visitor to Devipuram once attempted
to elicit Guruji’s opinions on the benefits of advanced hatha yoga
practices, Guruji laughed and replied, “You’re talking to the wrong guy!
I’m not really built for it!”
When another expressed determination to undertake a strict spiritual
fast, Guruji remarked, “It might be good for you, but only because you
need to prove to yourself that you are capable of it.”
The dos and don’ts of spirituality, he continually stressed, must come from within.
“All religions seem to preach that there are certain things
you should or should not do,” he said. “But who is to be the judge? I
think that you, as a divine personality, should judge for yourself what
you ought and ought not to be doing. Every conscious decision you make
says something about the type of lifestyle you want to lead: whether you
should or should not have sex, eat meat, drink alcohol, have coffee—
whatever it may be; all the good things and bad things. You are the only
person who can decide and tell yourself. Anything in moderation—just
don’t hurt yourself, don’t hurt others and don’t hurt the environment.
Other than that, you are free to do what you want. This is the
fundamental basis of all results in Tantra.”
Our spiritual journey, Guruji taught, can only begin from where we
are at this very moment. If any particular mode of eating, dressing or
behaving inspires us, focuses us, gives us a sense of community, or
makes us feel happier—then by all means, we should indulge as we see
fit.
What we should never do is allow such outward signifiers to function
as a prerequisite (or substitute) for spirituality itself, or a vehicle
for feeling superior to others who dress, eat or act differently.
“If a change has to happen, it will happen from within,”
Guruji said. “You will be guided by Devi herself. Who am I to decide for
you? You have all the freedom in the universe.”